Wednesday, March 4, 2009

What Love Is...(from my seven year old's perspective)

I'm home this afternoon, I've not felt very well this week. I've spent most of the afternoon in bed, but just got up and was going through a stack of mail that was sitting on our counter.

Hidden within the stack of mail, was a valentine that our son Joshua made. How had I missed that? Or had I read it, and in the busyness of life just not soaked up what it said?

This time, when I read it, I immediately chuckled, 'cause what it says, on a nicely cut out red heart and in his handwriting, is this:

"Love is when Mom plays a game with me. She almost always beats me."
The chuckle came from the "she almost always beats me" part. I had to laugh as I thought, "ya know, love would probably be expressed better if Mama would let him win :-)"
But it was also eye opening to me, that he feels loved when I play a game with him...and we're over due. So tonight, barring any additional unforeseen health issues...it's "GAME ON"...


3 comments :

Anonymous said...

Sweet! I too, am remeinded from by 3 year old that it is my undivided attention that she longs for so much. I got her Candy Land for Christmas, and we love playing it! It's so wonderful when we stop long enough to truly love our kids by showing them our love in tangible ways. Blessings to you and your family. Robin

Gretchen said...

So, did you let him win?

Melissa Milbourn said...

I beat him at tennis, but he beat me big time at Mario Kart :-)